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Ask Christa! How Do I Give Feedback to a Defensive Team Mate???
Summary
In this episode, Christa Dhimo addresses the challenges of giving feedback to defensive coworkers. She explores the reasons behind defensive behavior (including low self-esteem and past criticism), the importance of understanding it, and offers strategies for effectively providing feedback. Christa emphasizes the need for self-care, resetting conversations, and seeking support when dealing with defensiveness in the workplace. She also provides resources for further understanding a…
The "Nope!" Culture is a DRAG (and is often what's behind "old thinking") #business #innovation
Episode 14 is out and focuses on how to introduce a new idea to a rigid team, a "that's not how we do things around here" team. Often, that's not because of a new idea, but because they, too, once had new ideas and slowly learned—perhaps even subconsciously—that leadership isn’t the type to easily warm up to new ideas. (culture culture culture)
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Ask Christa! Business Questions, Straight Answers, Real Impact
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Considering others is useful at work, but what if we consider ourselves first? #business #work
When dealing with workplace issues, a lot of people start by considering others: how they'll respond, how they'll react, whether they can hear or listen to feedback. This is a useful tactic, and one that enables people to connect effectively and influence more broadly.
But a better tactic is how you prepare, and that MUST include how you consider yourself BEFORE you approach someone...
Season 2's preview is live-- check out Episode 13!
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Rigid Team? What do to be heard when your team is afraid of new ideas? #business #innovation
Episode 14's question is, "My team is so rigid-- they don't listen to anything new or different. What do I need to do to pitch a new idea?"
Depending on your trust and relationship with the team, you might be able to ask directly, “What do I need to do to have a new idea listened to before you all dismiss it? I’ve pitched four new ideas in the last six months—some of them I offered because I thought it would make work easier. Should I not say anything at all?”
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Ask Christa! How Do I Introduce a New Idea to a RIGID TEAM???
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In this episode of Ask Christa!, Christa Dhimo addresses a listener's question about introducing new ideas in a resistant team environment. She explores the underlying reasons for resistance, particularly focusing on learned helplessness, and offers strategies for effectively pitching new ideas. Christa emphasizes the importance of learning about team members' past experiences, understanding team dynamics, and creating dedicated spaces for discussing new concepts. She al…
Ignore those who say HOW you #work doesn't matter-- learn from a #fail to #improveskills!!
If someone says HOW you do something doesn’t matter as much as WHAT you do, or did… don’t believe them. That's old thinking, and it's not true.
They may not want the encyclopedic version of how you did your job and achieved the goal, but HOW you work is really important, and successes and failures—often especially the failures—inform whether HOW we’re working should remain the same, or… change.
Check out Episode 12!!!
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Stress isn't always bad, but when it's bad it's BAD... #stressrelief #business #leadership
Stress isn’t always BAD. It can be one of the biggest and most uplifting motivators we know—inspiring us, generating happiness, giving us things to look forward to; it’s not always bad.
But bad stress… stress at work… when the world often feels stressful… too much of that is… bad.
Check out Episode 11 "Ugh! I Yelled At Work!!!"
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How we can feel stronger at work? Season 2 preview! #business #smallbusiness #workplaceculture
How should we approach introducing a new idea when we work within a rigid team? How should be best frame an issue so a team member with an unchecked temper doesn’t become defensive-- AGAIN? How do we stick up for ourselves when our boss interrupts us in front of our team?
These are the kinds of questions I'm getting as I setup Season 2, and they are REAL and they are COMPLEX and they are COMMON.
The first place to start: how we can know ourselves better in a work situa…
Ask Christa! What if You Consider Yourself First (in Business)? Season 1 Wrap & Season 2 Preview
Summary
In this episode, Christa Dhimo wraps up the first season of her podcast by emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in navigating business challenges and workplace issues. She discusses how understanding our own needs and concerns can enhance our ability to influence, negotiate effectively, and handle conflict management more productively. The conversation reviews the basics of negotiation and conflict management skills while reinforcing that it starts with each of us individ…
It's time to REFRAME what failure at work means in a #business
Success and failure aren't opposing, binary outcomes: they are part of a spectrum. Focus on achievement-- there will be many times we fail and succeed while we strive for meeting or exceeding our work goals. If we get weighed down by the failures, we miss out on what it takes to make things better.
And, there are far too many shapes and sizes of success and failure, especially as they mean different things in different contexts and cultures.
Check out Episode 12!
Fear of a #fail limits the best things about #humanity: curiousity, critical thinking, innovation...
The fear of failure often shuts down a lot—or perhaps all of—the best part of being human: How to be curious. How to try something new. How to extend ourselves and be more innovative, stretch out more, grow. How to solve problems in a more efficient way.
In addition, the failure that can teach us soooo much usually hurts us way more on the inside than on the outside. It can crush our confidence, feel harmful, even "soul crushing."
But learning through failures make…
Workplace Stress Can Lead to Yelling-- Get #stressrelief quickly!!
When I think of what happens when people are consistently and continually living in a high stress zone—and we see leaders do that when they lose control of their temper, they lose perspective, they lose a feeling of stability—of being themselves… it takes just one click to send them to the red zone.
Just. One. Click.
Check out Episode 11 where a listener asks, "I yelled at work... I'm ashamed... what do I do?"
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If you're afraid to #fail, you may not find #joy or #growth opps at work #business #growthmindset
We want to achieve SUCCESS!!! So we focus on the end goal and get it done by any means possible, restricting our better sides, stressing out, feeling bad… even though the end result is… GOOD?
Yup. Yup. that’s what we do. And we’ve been doing this as a society for… forever, but there will be plenty of successes and failures as you work toward a goal—what becomes very apparent is that with every success and failure along the way while working toward a goal, you have a chance to learn H…
Ask Christa! What if Failure Didn't Exist in the Business World?
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In this episode of Ask Christa, Christa Dhimo explores the concept of failure in the workplace, emphasizing that it is crucial to focus on learning and achieving goals rather than being weighed down by the fear of failure, and the importance of reframing our understanding of failure and success. She discusses how perceptions of success and failure can impact performance, and how by changing our perspective on failure, we can foster a more positive workplace environment that encour…
SMART Goals Ain't Bad! (But Bad Goals Are The WORST!) #goals #business #performance
There are various frameworks and cheatsheets in the business world, but few have stood the test of time (and the test of massively dysfunctional companies!) like SMART Goals. I'm a bit of a contrarian by nature-- not a nay-sayer, but more a healthy skeptic: I'm not interested in any fads or popular insights unless they are solid, preferably backed by some measure of evidence, and EASY / ADOPTABLE. I'm not up for doing work for the sake of work, and I definitely DO NOT want to …
No #strategy ? That means No Direction (and you're not crazy...) #business #smallbusiness #goals
Companies CAN survive on the momentum of an idea or one goal and without a strategy, for a little while, but soon they will run out of runway. They simply don’t have a roadmap that provides the path forward, including what remains tight for structure or loose for flexibility, and how the whole organization made up of several different employees and functions will work together to meet or exceed organizational goals.
That’s not a sustainable model, so don’t be alarmed, but also know …
My Experience w/Work Stress-- Inexperienced Investors! #stressrelief #leadership #work #business #
I remember dealing with a super stressed out leadership team, and we were all trying to manage a super stressed out investor team—the single and only investor in the company (bad idea).
There were stressed out people all around, all the time. And it just kept escalating and escalating and escalating.It was an impossible environment. And, a belittling environment, too.
Seasoned leaders were always stressed out, and it affected our productivity.
Check out Episode 11 whe…
Ask Christa! Ugh! What Do I Do? I YELLED AT WORK AND FEEL AWFUL!!!
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In this episode, Christa Dhimo addresses a listener's concern about yelling at work due to stress. She discusses the impact of workplace stress on performance, behavior, and emotional responses, emphasizing the importance of understanding and managing stress levels by diffusing stress to get back to a “Green” zone. She offers practical strategies for managing stress, including how the Stress Continuum model, which enables self-awareness through categorizations of stress, can …
Crafting goals is a skill in short supply (learn the skill and you have an EDGE!) #goals #business
I see a lot of employees-- ESPECIALLY LEADERS-- struggle to craft effective goals, and even fewer know how to critically coach to improve them, and fewer yet know how to test if they actually align to the bigger goals every employee should be supporting.
With the number of economic downturns in the last 25 years, I’ve seen a deeper downturn in how companies consider learning and development overall—including when it comes to key professional skills that actually ENABLE a company’s pe…
Crafting Goals Shouldn't Be a DRAG!! Focus on Your Unique VALUE!! #business #goals #performance
Ugh-- drafting your goals THEN REVIEWING WITH YOUR MANAGER!! Yuck-- I used to hate doing that, too, especially when I was leading a large-scale remediation and my manager was part of the problem... (that's for a different podcast!)
But drafting goals shouldn't be the drag it's become-- even if you aren't clear on your company's strategy or larger goals. Consider your goals less about what you will do for your organization and more about how you will apply you…
Stress at Work is REAL, and #stressrelief is critical-- One Moment Can Create Severe Damage!!!
When people are consistently and continually living in a high stress zone—and we see leaders do that when they lose control of their temper, they lose perspective, they lose a feeling of stability—of being themselves (in an "orange" zone)… it takes just one click to send them to the red zone.
Just one moment can go from professional, appropriate behavior to yelling.
Stress is very damaging. Learn what you need to manage it. Yelling at work is a stress response.
#strategy is the WHO and the HOW-- not just the WHAT!! #business #businesstips #smallbusiness
Some people try to make strategy seem complicated-- that's the first sign that they probably don't understand what strategy is. Others think it makes them special so they like to slow-the-roll of understanding strategy, but EVERYONE should know what strategy means AND THEY SHOULD FEEL CONFIDENT that it isn't as complex as it sounds.
Episode 9 explores how to manage in an organization where you aren't sure there is a strategy...
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Leaders: Many of Your Employees Do NOT Know the "Corporate Goals"! #strategy #leadership #business
In my experience, there are generally three reasons why employees struggle to craft and draft goals, and the first is that there aren't clear company goals!
Studies frequently offer evidence TO SENIOR LEADERS telling them that although they THINK the goals are clear and everyone’s fully aligned, that simply isn't the reality...
Listen to my third epi in the Strategy Series (Episode 10), focused on how to craft and draft goals if you don't know what the strategy…
Ask Christa! Strategy Series (3/3): How Do I Create Goals If There's NO STRATEGY???
Summary
In this episode of Ask Christa, Christa Dhimo addresses the common challenge of creating goals aligned with a company's strategy, particularly when that strategy is, or corporate goals are, unclear. She discusses the importance of understanding corporate goals, the process of crafting and drafting individual goals, and practical steps to align individual objectives with broader organizational aims.. Christa emphasizes the need for clarity in goal-setting and provides resource…