Summary
In this episode of Ask Christa!, Christa Dhimo addresses how to handle a boss who belittles and demeans employees, focusing on strategies for emotional relief, understanding power dynamics, and seeking resources.
Key Takeaways
• Power dynamics set the groundwork for abuse in the workplace
• There are strategies for emotional relief and support
• Understand your resources and policies for addressing toxic behavior
Additional Resources
Ask Christa! (2026, January 29). My boss belittles my Co-Worker, What should I do? (Ask Christa! . . . [Video]. Ask Christa! https://www.askchrista.com/my-boss-belittles-my-co-worker-what-should-i-do-ask-christa-s6e63/
Ask Christa! (2025, June 17). Ask Christa! How Do I Stop Putting Up with Bad Behavior (Put-Dow. . . [Video]. Ask Christa! https://www.askchrista.com/ask-christa-how-do-i-stop-putting-up-with-bad-behavior-put-downs-at-work-s2e17/
De Vries, M. F. R. K. (2024, June 18). How to handle a toxic boss. INSEAD Knowledge. https://knowledge.insead.edu/career/how-handle-toxic-boss
Jennifer Brick. (2025, June 3). How to Deal with a Toxic Boss When You Can’t QUIT [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkMHaLD8ln0
TEDx Talks. (2026, March 23). How to handle a bad boss | Natalie Parker | TEDxParrish Street [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U86LLzZUjVw
Video Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:57 Listener Question
01:54 Put-Downs Are About Power Dynamics, Too
03:40 When Power Dynamics Become Abusive at Work
05:11 Talk, Know, Seek Advice (not opinions, but ADVICE)
08:23 Additional Resources
09:51 Wrap Up & Submitting Your Question
10:17 Booking Information
Keywords
toxic boss, workplace bullying, management strategies, emotional relief, workplace policies
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