Summary
In this episode of Ask Christa!, host Christa Dhimo addresses a listener's concern about her boss assigning her work that belongs to him, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing one's value in the workplace. Christa provides actionable steps to shift the mindset, help employees reclaim their roles and navigate the complexities of workplace dynamics, especially when dealing with bad bosses.
Key Takeaways
• Most people aren't prepared to become a manager.
• Resetting boundaries is uncomfortable but necessary.
• Recognizing your value is crucial in the workplace.
• There are practical ways to manage being taken advantage of.
• Resources are available to help navigate workplace challenges.
Additional Resources
Monster.com. (2025, May 20). 5 signs you’re being taken advantage of at work. https://www.monster.com/career-advice/article/being-taken-advantage-of-at-work-0517
Mutawe, E. (2025, September 8). 10 signs of a manipulative boss (and how to handle them at work). BrighterMonday Kenya. https://www.brightermonday.co.ke/discover/manipulative-boss#10_Taking_Credit_for_Your_Work
Video Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:28 Call to Action – Support Ask Christa! as a free resource!
00:59 Listener Question
02:05 Boundaries, Girl. Boundaries.
03:24 Three Ways to Unstick from a Sticky Situation
07:15 When Doing Your Boss’s Work Is a Sign of Trust and Respect
08:06 Additional Resources
09:40 Wrap Up & Submitting Your Question
10:13 Booking & Contact Information
Keywords
workplace issues, bad bosses, setting boundaries, career development, performance reviews, employee rights, job description, professional growth, management skills, workplace dynamics
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